Yes, You Can Still Cold Approach in 2026 (and 2035, and 2075…)
Nov 21, 2025 · I get this question all the time: “Andy, can you still cold approach in 2026?” Guys say it like there’s an expiry date on saying hi to a woman. Yes, you can still walk up to a girl in …
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The “Chad” Trap: How Overcompensating Masculinity Sabotaged My Dating Success April 26, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) Sex & Dating
Autistic or Awkward? How to Date Without Masking Who You Are
Nov 15, 2025 · If you’re an autistic guy, you’ve probably learned to hide who you are when it comes to dating. You’ve been told you’re too blunt, too quiet, too intense, too weird. So you …
When I had Unrealistic Standards, I Didn’t Get Laid [Storytime with ...
Exactly like Good Looking Loser did in his early 20’s. I’m a fucking retard for repeating the same pattern, given I’d already read all his articles about lowering your standards. Guess we have to …
Kill Your Inner Loser
Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & …
Why spending $200 on this one thing is the best investment you’ll …
Nov 15, 2025 · Most guys don’t hesitate to blow $200 on: a night out they barely remember the next day drinks to try to numb the pain of a mediocre life Uber rides to nowhere important porn …
He Dated 5 Girls in 2 Weeks — By Finally Being HONEST!
November 17, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) When this client first joined coaching, he’d only approached eight women in his entire life. He was nervous, overthinking everything, and …
10 Ways to Build an ‘I Don’t Give a F*ck’ Attitude: Letting Go of ...
10 Ways to Build an ‘I Don’t Give a F*ck’ Attitude: Letting Go of Others’ Opinions April 14, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser)
How I Beat Depression & Learned to be an Optimist (My Story)
Mar 26, 2021 · Loser’s mindset and all of that. I’ve long-since moved past it and forgiven him, but man… as a teenager and in most of my 20’s it absolutely ate away at my soul. Feeling like …
You’re Allowed to Feel Worthy While You Grow (Self-Love)
A lot of us grow up thinking love is something we have to earn. Be perfect and you’ll get approval. Make no mistakes and you’ll be accepted. Achieve enough and maybe — just maybe — you’ll …